Realistically, it is very difficult to be an instant success -on F4F, as in virtually any endeavor. It takes time and effort with trial and error, misses as well as successes.
One important item to keep in mind is that you have to find your own 'groove' and express yourself. Trying to be someone or something you're not will show as phoniness and will fail.
While keeping that in mind, it might be interesting/enlightening to spend some time as an anonymous 'guest' just quietly observing how some other models you admire conduct their chat rooms.
As a final note, I will point out that a 'new' model - one who started in April 2021 - has earned a trip to Cancun this year for Flirt Summit.
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